Filthy is the new Quaint
A really strange moment yesterday: I was listening to a local rock music station, and they dusted off a song from two decades ago, from shortly before I started listening to such music.
It was a sexual suggestion song, a variety that only existed for a few years in the 80s and early 90s, in the period between the Beatles’ I want to hold your hand and R. Kelly’s I want to [fill in the blank for the entire album]
For some time, hair metal from 1990 has felt dated to me, but this time, it felt downright quaint. And that was what was disturbing. It was Poison, a band I’ve never liked. The song was Talk Dirty to Me, not exactly a great start. And even now, as I look up the lyrics, I don’t feel like reprinting them here.
Still, Talk Dirty to Me was supposed to be raunchy (and it was), yet it’s almost polite in today’s scene. Considering that even the Onion found R Kelly pitifully filthy, we’re in a painful spot.
Actually, it’s a misogynistic spot. I’ve had an untested hypothesis over the last few years, that sexual anarchy, at the cultural level, will ultimately favor the sexually aggressive. On aggregate that means men, but not just any men: those who tolerate no limits to their freedom.
Quaint, in this sense, means innocent and just a little ignorant. It's a word of condescension. In hindsight, Poison probably deserve condescension, because the logic of their song--the logic of lust--cannot be resolved except by raising the stakes, which is exactly what the passage of time has done. That's what it means to be a slave to one's passions.
We are not doomed to follow. We can develop sustainable tastes. How that's done I don't know, other than that it involves healing, which usually points to an external source to our own will.



That being said, I’ve been listening to a
Here's a great book I've enjoyed this winter: 
Whenever I go to a symphony, two demographic observations stick out: the crowd is nearly all white; and the performers are white and Asian.
