Choosing Our Battles
Christmas was a month ago.
I'm still wondering about something... Peace on Earth?
Currently there are around 30 armed conflicts of one sort or another on this earth. That's a few less than 10 years ago, but it's hardly Peace on Earth yet.
Not all wars are acknowledged as such -- "a state of open, armed, often prolonged conflict." Civil disputes, insurgencies, ethnic or religious conflicts, border skirmishes, political power struggles all come and go, some lingering so long that the world stops thinking of them as wars.
Even in Sudan, where a year ago the world formally agreed that what's happening there is genocide, it continues to this day, and we (the rest of the world) essentially allow it to continue.
We swore after Rwanda that "never again" would we let this happen. But genocide IS happening now, in Sudan, and every government and individual who goes to bed and wakes up in various parts of the world, while this takes place, bears a part of the responsibility.
Many armed conflicts, after months or years have passed, cannot be claimed by either party or outside observers to have been "worth" the loss of life, the years of hatred, the spent energy or the price of daily turmoil, in light of what if anything has been gained.
Sacrifice should be legitimate and also worthy. War, when there is no alternative, should at the very least be just. There is a solid body of careful reason, history, and Biblical theology supporting this concept.
I am not a pacifist, but I don't care for war and from what I read in scripture I don't think God likes or condones it. God's original creation did not feature war, only the freedom to follow or ignore God's ground rules.
Old habits die hard. While sin and its consequence linger in this little world of ours, there is by definition an ongoing conflict between the core essense of who God is, and the forces of rebellion against that core essense. The "dark side." It isn't only out there, it's inside of me and you. No wonder we are fascinated with Star Wars, Tolkien, and Narnia. This fiction is also our real life history.
The Bible is full of stories about wars that have been fought between human parties, sometimes with God taking a side. There are war metaphors about armor, swords, shields, and helmets; spiritual battles not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers. While the language sounds metaphorical, many Christians know to take spiritual conflict seriously.
On a personal, micro level, we talk about "choosing our battles." We've all fought some personal battles that we later felt were not worth the cost, or turned out to be less important struggles than those which would better deserve our limited time and energy. Even some battles that we lost by winning.
Rather than bullets or missiles, our personal battles involve limited ammunition like words, attitudes, power, strategy, influence, relationships, favor, persuasion, time, money, energy, elbowgrease, and passion. Many personal battles can be good battles for worthy causes. Many are not.
"Choosing our battles" is a metaphor for the strategy of channeling our limited energies into the places that are most important. It's the recognition that we can't do it all, we can't fight for every worthy cause we know about; we need to choose the ones that are truly most important.
Any mature person can relate to choosing important battles and discarding the temptation to waste ourselves on peripheral matters. For Christians, this criteria needs to be guided by values that are distilled from what God has communicated in Scripture about what's most important and what's not.
And there should be some consistency. It wouldn't seem very balanced to diligently do the laundry but never wash the dishes; or to fervently sweep the floors but never vacuum the carpets. If finished chores or clean floors were life's biggest challenges, inconsistency would be the flag of failure.
Similarly, it wouldn't be very consistent to be "pro life" about one specific issue (oh, let's say for example abortion or stem cells) while expressing or acting with hatred or disgust or indifference toward some of the other lives God created; or neglecting the many other places in society where the sanctity of human life as God created it is threatened. If human life is sacred at all, then ALL of human life is sacred. This means that if we are consistent, poverty and injustice and suffering must be abhorrent to us, and we should actively battle them.
That's why I could never be a one-issue or two-issue voter. If God could be dismayed, it might be the times when we say we care about something and then we do something else. Like those people of whom Jesus said, "You call me 'Lord, Lord,' and then you go your way."
Clearly these people had some reason to call Jesus Lord. But they also had other priorities in conflict with Jesus' Lordship. Other battles to fight, other cares to chase. Priorities that were proven in the pudding.
Why do Christians so often expend too much of our energies on a few narrowly selected battles at the expense of many other concerns that we should know are very much on God's heart? Why do our battles (even if they are worthy) sometimes lack the consistency that would demonstrate they grow out of the core values of God's revealed truth in scripture? Why do we hone in on some truth and ignore other truth?
The causes to which Jesus calls those who follow him are daunting from a human perspective. A few of these battles, all on their own, are bottomless lifelong challenges, like serving the poor, or loving my neighbor, or considering the needs of others as more important than my own. Who has accomplished these things?
Jesus reminds us where the true battles are...
Jesus said, "My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jews. But now my kingdom is from another place."
- John 18:36
Peace, in a geopolitical sense, has proven to be very elusive.
But I wonder if the peace Jesus offers is not the absence of war, but the peace-giving presence of God in the hearts of those who make the space. Out of this peace, when we let it take root, grow and thrive by God's spirit, can come fruit that is supernatural -- the fruit of forgiveness, tolerance, peacemaking, humility, and sacrificial love.
Now THAT would be peace. By my own human capability it feels very out of reach, and perhaps that is the most important point of all.
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
- John 14:27
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
- John 16:33


