Memorial Days
I decided that it doesn't make sense to say "Happy Memorial Day." A friend and I agreed that something like "Day of Remembering Be Unto You" was a better greeting.
Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day, and began to be observed in the 19th Century to honor those who were killed in the Civil War. Later it expanded to include everyone who died in combat.
I asked several people over this holiday weekend, and none of us could say we personally know someone who has died in combat.
So while I made an effort to "remember" and appreciate those who have sacrificed their lives for the sake of our country, it was a somewhat removed remembrance, a few degrees of separation away from those who have died in battle while serving the nation of my birth.
I thought about the almost 2,500 American soldiers who have died in Iraq, men and women for whose service and sacrifice I am grateful, but who have been engaged by their leaders in a venture that I strongly disagree with and believe was a mistake.
These are mixed feelings.
Some would disagree but I think it's possible to have appreciation for loyal service and sacrifice of those in our military, and simultaneously be critical about the course of a premature, preemptive war that unnecessarily led to costly loss of life on both sides.
It's possible to support our troops but not our oops.
I also thought this weekend about spiritual battles and casualties thereof. I'm not one to overly quickly ascribe every adversity to spiritual battle, but I do believe there are daily spiritual battles with high stakes.
The good news is that these casualties -- people who are martyred for their faith in Christ or who sacrifice so much in order to live lives of other-centered service -- these are wins, not losses. The death of the body is not the end of the story, it's the start of a better much longer chapter.
Paul's words in Philippians 1:21 are profound: "To live is Christ and to die is gain." Just a few verses later, in a context of dangerous days for those who were following Christ in the first century church, there's more: "Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ."
While we remember, with perhaps mixed feelings, those who have died in traditional and spiritual battles, we are also called to live up to and live into the calling of Christ.
For a follower of Jesus, the ultimate Remembering of course is the broken body and poured-out blood of Christ, sacraments by which we remember God's initiative to offer us a way of peace and reconciliation with our creator.
Day of Remembering Be Unto You.
("Do this in remembrance of me.")


