Birthdays are shortlived, but it takes a whole year to get a year older.
I recently completed another (forty-something) one of these processes, and it had me thinking about a few things including how process can take its sweet time.
(Side note: I'm ripe for mid life crisis but it must be predisposed at some critical elsewhere for now. Or perhaps its first tactic is the introduction of denial. No, not possible.)
I'm in the midst of several processes. Some are just a few days or weeks long, others have a much longer cycle.
Like language, all processes have punctuation -- milestones and markers that measure their path toward some completion.
There's the process of time; punctuated by moving hands, yet it never seems to end.
There's the process of breathing; punctuated by itself. It ends eventually, but we don't mind waiting.
There's the process of cooking dinner; punctuated by enjoying it with family and friends (and the anticlimactic act of cleaning the dishes).
There's the process of enjoying live music (my memory is fresh with two recent tastes of live jazz), punctuated by surprises, special moments along the way, and the supressed disappointment when it's over, all is quiet and there will be no encores.
There's the process of catching up on laundry, which can take a couple days or more; punctuated by empty baskets (for now) and replenished drawers, if you'll pardon the pun. Laundry is a bad example of "process", it's a bit too eager in perpetuity.
For those who have the privilege of employment, there's the process of a workweek; punctuated either by the weekend (the "end") or Monday (another beginning).
There's the process of planning and completing a project. These can last for days or weeks; for me a rare few have lasted over a year. They are punctuated by accomplishments of teams of people; good and challenging surprises along the way; in the best case scenarios, there's also completion, evaluation, revision, success, acknowledgement, celebration, closure, and perhaps improvement as a new process is spun off.
There's the creative process of building a successful marriage; punctuated by anniversaries, joy, sorrow, success, failure, stages of intimacy, self- vs. other-centered living.
There's the process of raising children; punctuated by their birthdays, growth and maturity, unique expression that leads to humble appreciation for God's miraculous creativity. This may be the ultimate act of collaboration, among a team of at least three (mom, dad, creator) and hopefully more.
There's the process of self-improvement; punctuated by tradeoffs, getting better at some things while losing capacity in other areas. Nobody said improvement was perfect. ;-)
Besides these, what other processes do Christians experience?
I'm not talking about nominal Christians who identify in general (in name) with the church, but rather those who try to focus the center of their lives on following Jesus, over the long haul.
Here are a few other faith-intensive processes:
There's the process of worship; punctuated by every time we regain an acute awareness of God's presence in our lives and our world. This might happen in corporate worship on a Sunday, but much more ideally it happens almost continually. It's the process of remembering who God is and who we are.
There's the process of reconciliation; it's repetitive punctuation (dot dot dot)... as an ongoing thing: being reconciled back to that for which we were intended; back to what adds up correctly.
There's the process of reformation; punctuated by moments in which we are reformed from that which has fallen, and instead we are conformed to Christ.
There's the process of mission; punctuated by God's power and by human collaboration, in spite of its gross weakness, to holistically address the needs of God's creation like Jesus did.
There's the process of redemption; very onoging and punctuated by God's grace and patience. (Is patience a form of punctuation?)
There's the process of obedience; very ongoing and punctuated by falling short, and mercy, and forgiveness.
There's the process of discipleship; teaching, shaping and conforming all things and people back into the image of what God had in mind from the start.
The interesting thing about most faith processes is not their punctuation so much as their indefinite, ongoing, incomplete, long-haul nature.
Along with the Holy Spirit, the global church has not yet worked itself out of a job. The reconciliation of all creation is not fully realized in our world. Sin is not abolished, and apparently it won't be this side of our human lifespans. The poor will always be with us - as an opportunity, not a handicap or a fatality.
The kingdom of heaven seems to be a process rather than a destination or even a cycle.
It's a process of advancing daily toward the goal of the prayer, "Your Kingdom Come."
As you get a year older, what processes does God have going in your life?
"My counsel for you is simple and straightforward: Just go ahead with what you've been given. You received Christ Jesus, the Master; now live him. You're deeply rooted in him. You're well constructed upon him. You know your way around the faith. Now do what you've been taught. School's out; quit studying the subject and start living it! And let your living spill over into thanksgiving."
- Colossians 2:6-7 (MSG)